Tag Archives: letting go of fear

Understanding Control Freak Dynamics

In Losing Control, Finding Serenity: How the Need to Control Hurts Us and How to Let It Go and on this blog I write about how to deal with control freaks (and excessive controllers) and what’s behind their often abusive … Continue reading

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How Confidence Helps Tame Control Freaks

In my radio interviews following the publication of Losing Control, Finding Serenity, I am frequently asked for advice on how people can deal with the control freaks in their lives, whether it be a controlling spouse at home or a … Continue reading

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Easy Tips for Letting Go of Control

Do you realize that you should be letting go of control, say with your children or partner, or at work, but find it real hard to do? If so, asking yourself these basic, but very effective, decontrol questions will make … Continue reading

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Control Freaks Suffer, Too—And You Can Help Them!

In my media interviews with respect to the recent publication of Losing Control, Finding Serenity: How the Need to Control Hurts Us and How to Let It Go, interviewers and listeners alike often relate their considerable angst and discomfort from … Continue reading

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Work Control: Five Ways It Harms You and How to Avoid It

The workplace is where humanity’s primal drive for sustenance and survival is most prominently played out.   As such, it is a hotbed for costly control practices.  Some graciously refer to the compulsion to control at work as just “trying to … Continue reading

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Let Go of Control and Be Happy!

Many of my posts explore the remarkable and often unexpected benefits that come to us when we are able to let go of control–even partially– in such vital areas of our lives as parenting, intimate relations, family and friends, at … Continue reading

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Letting Go of Love Fears

Letting go of the pain and sorrow from breaking up with loved ones is difficult for most people.   Not only do we grieve our loss, but we also find ourselves shackled by our fears and unable to move on with … Continue reading

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2 Keys to Letting Go of Fear

When I recently contacted a dear friend from much earlier days in my life to tell her about the publication of  Losing Control, Finding Serenity, the book’s notion of our constant need to control struck a very strong chord in … Continue reading

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