The intensity of our controlling actions impairs our vision. It puts “blinders” on us and we are unable to recognize the opportunities and make the choices that would improve our lives emotionally, spiritually, creatively, and financially.
The dynamic is akin to when you search intensely and determinedly to find your misplaced keys or glasses. You retrace your steps and search everywhere; in all the drawers, under your desk, in the closet, in your car, in the garage–all to no avail.
Frustrated, you finally stop searching, and lo and behold, several minutes later you spot your keys in plain sight. Sound familiar?
When you let go of control you become more aware of the beauty and wonders all around you!
Start removing your control blinders!
And remember to,
Let It Go!