Valentine’s Day is almost here. What better time to focus on enhancing your “Love Flow”. It’s easier than you might think. Simply let go of Love Control.
Intimate relations are fertile grounds for controlling actions. Love control runs the gamut, from unsolicited advice and opinions, to criticism and judgment, to unreasonable demands and expectations. Such control behaviors breed resentment and diminish the love glow.
Let Go of Love Control
Here are two effective ways to let go of love control and stimulate your love flow.
1. Be Accepting of Your Love One. Accept your partner for whom, what, and how he or she is, rather than trying to “mold” him (or her) to suit your perceived needs.
2. Moderate Your Expectations. Expecting too much of or from your partner invariably leads to resentment and conflict by putting undue pressure on him or her. Hence, lower your expectations,reduce the intensity, and allow the love currents to flow naturally.
A Valentine’s Committment
Make a commitment to try these love decontrol tools this week. I am confident your Valentine’s Day will shine brighter with enhanced love glow.
Let it Go!